The last thing any woman want to suspect her husband or partner of is cheating, especially if you have been in a long and loving relationship.
Cheating takes on many shapes and forms, and the lines have become quite blurred with the technological advances of recent years. Long gone are the days when a partner’s infidelity was limited to sleeping with somebody else; steamy text messages and that secret chat room rendezvous are not only easier to hide but can be done while you are in the same room!
Here are some warning signs that you partner could be cheating on you. Just remember not to confuse signs with proof, and have an action plan – like family counselling – in place if your worst fears do come true...
- You catch him with little lies about how and where he spent parts of his day.
- His cell phone is always on silent, and he carries it EVERYWHERE.
- He hides his cell phone and credit card bills.
- He takes a new interest in his appearance and grooming, buys new clothes and suddenly takes out a gym contract.
- He is constantly online or sending SMS messages, but won’t give you any details.
- He accuses you of not trusting him and becomes defensive when you mention infidelity.
- He works longer hours, even though there is no proof that his workload has increased.
- He "loses" his wedding ring or "forgets" to wear it (watch out for the disappearance of the tell-tale "wedding band tan").
- He tells you that he loves you but is no longer in love with you.
- He feels the need to justify his relationship with somebody as being "just friends".
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